Please for Pete's Sake...

For all that is holy...PLEASE.When someone offends you or hurts your feelings, or if you are upset by someone's actions....Please don't add to the drama and talk to everyone BUT the offender. Call the person, visit them, write a letter, write an annonymous letter, ANYTHING.Chances are the person has no clue how you feel. People don't wake up in the morning and think "Gee...how can I offend someone today?" And the people who are caught in the middle have no idea what to say to you without adding fuel to the fire.Unless you are seeking honest advice from someone, no one else should have to go through all that drama.And how horrible will it be when the person finds out that you were offended and talked to everyone on the planet BUT THEM???? Please.Find a way.
That is all.