Me- I- Myself-Mine.

I have decided I am:

• much too serious too much of the time.
• pretty smart
• kinda cute
• of worth

I have come to the conclusion that :

• I am not in charge of my husband,
• will do my best to stop trying to fix him, and let him fail on his own.
• will do my best to keep my opinions and feelings to myself about what I think he should be doing.
• and I will preserve my energy for more productive things.

(I had written "more important things" but I still feel those things are important.)

I have chosen that:

• My children should KNOW that I would do anything for them when I am able
• My home is my refuge... and I can curl up with a book or surf online if no one wants my attention, without feeling lazy/guilty.
• My health is important to me... and I am going to choose differently.

I am not defined by:

• How clean my home is
• How much money we have
• What activities my kids are involved in
• What kind of car I drive
• The kind of clothes I wear

What matters to me is:

• To find outlets that will make me happy
• My family, regardless of the choices they all make
• Health and happiness
• Strength of Character

This year, my 40th year of life,

brings me to new choices....

new decisions...

and peace within.

"Character is the final decision to reject whatever is demeaning to oneself or to others and with confidence and honesty choose what is right."~~Unknown