Bad Day?

I had a horrible day yesterday. We actually Fought fought...which is rare for us. People never believe me when I say that we have very rarely fought with each other. When we disagree--- we rarely EVER raise our voices. And then , it's NEVER in front of the children or anyone else for that matter.We never say mean, hateful things to each other--even if it's true...and that's not usually because of ME. It's him. He is a 'logical argue-er' and doesn't understand the need for shouting, screaming insults and cutting a person to the core. If shouting or crying is involved...the conversation is over for him. I say the shouting sometimes just makes me feel better sometimes. *sigh* It has been good for me to learn how to control my temper. It has been something I've always wanted to be in command of and prayed for. Y'know what they say... be careful for what you pray for...You may just get it. *double-sigh* I digress... *wink*